Ciara is offering some clarity on her "Level Up" post that rubbed a few single women the wrong way and sparked a huge debate on social media. In the note posted on her Instagram page, Mrs. Wilson wrote: I was once that girl wanting to be loved a certain way but was making the wrong choices. I found myself at my lowest moment. I

was a single mom sitting at home, and I then realized that the perfect love I was looking for was how God loves me, how He wants me to be loved, and who He was calling me to be as a mom and a woman. Thats when I realized married or not married...I needed to love myself. #LevelUP see original post below